Am I A Bitch Because I'm A Woman Who Stops At Nothing To Reach Her Goal?

  
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     Being a woman I can understand how discrimination feels first-hand when someone calls you a bitch for trying hard to reach your goal. Although your techniques may seem harsh, your main goal is to get the job done right. Bitch has several different definitions in discourses. In 1785 the definition of "bitch" meant a disgrace of a woman who makes men lust over her by appeasing their senses. Now a days definition is a female who is mean, selfish, cruel, malicious, deceiving or a cunt. According to  Beverly Gross the term Bitch, as mentions in her article, is often a title which is given to women by men who find fault within them. Thus men are usually the source of the negetave connotation that the term "bitch" is referred to as. Feminists are often opposing of this term which has continued to remain and exist in the norms of the society today.

     Men are often the users of the word bitch to reproach women for being mean to them. Incontrast, women often do not refer to men in such discrimminating way, but rather, as greater beings who deserve praise. Why can't women convey their feelings towards the way others refer to them as bitch ever be mean compared to men. Men get to be jerks and that's socially appropriate because he's a man or the boss we must respect. Women who threatens or destroys masculinity is ultimately in their standards deserve to be called bitch. Men who feel threaten by women use this word "bitch" to reproach them for hurting their ego and masculinity. Men use the word bitch to make women submissive and gain more access to control women this way. When men feel fulfilled when women build up there egos this leads to women to question. Who is going to build up women's egos if their is no one to care about her own accept herself.

     Society over the ages let women be defined by such discriminating terms that used to remake us in a women they want. No one wants to be called a "Bitch" for being the one who stands up during class to the jerk football player in our English class for saying who is always rude and motives are questionable. Maybe being called a bitch has kept women in line throughout the ages while co-existing with men. However, why do we even have to "co-exist" with them with such harsh boundaries why can't we all respect each other for our on goals.

     I'm not instigating that males are never discriminated against however, historically women had to plead for the nineteenth amendment to the United Stated Constitution in the 1920s. Women are always changing throughout time so are men. As women try to gain equality more anti-feminism is bound to happen. Men need a mechanism to use on all women by putting a label on them, so they call them a bitch. Men sometimes need someone to blame when life isn't going there way.

     There are weak men that see women only as breeders they use the word bitch to shackle women solely into a harlot stereotype. Women that think bitch is a normal word that they can be called that because their man is giving them attention, who cares about negativity of word to all women or how they feel. In most Hip-hop and Rap music today women are classified as "Bitches" a faceless women but a hot sexy body for men to desire. Men control women making comply to fulfill their ego to show have power by saying this women's my "bitch" she does whatever I want. Using the word "bitch" as a pet name to the women they to sleep with because of solely for their body. Discrimination of your gender will keep happening if no one is going to stand up and take responsibility for women rights.

 
     Women are usually are disqualified for Presidential Titles because they know for being bitchy which is a mood where one complains incessantly about anything especially when they're menstruating. Could you imagine you are qualified to have the honor of being the first woman President but you have to face society problems just to try to run as candidate. I think that's why many women choose not to try hard in society work places because being called a "bitch" is undesirable. Women that want to be loose and free have qualities that were passed through society to make them feel like their life is worthless  with out a man's love.

     Growing up I would watch all the Disney movies about romance of how to fall in love with the prince. However there aren't a lot princes around just a bunch of frogs that don't understand me because I don't fall to kiss them. Children movies show how submissive women are to have men. They don't describe how life is after when there married. Marriage isn't going to be so great if realize that the man you are with hates woman that don't make them feel the best about themselves and their ego is to large to handle. What then it's to late learn from your mistakes because you learned at such a young age that love is necessary to be happy. Look everyone in the movies has that special someone? I don't so I must be a horrible woman. If you took a look at who made Disney you would realized it was just socially appropriate to degraded women as objects not as equals. Threat woman are just suppose  meant to think a certain way so that they need a man more.

     When you don't share these opinions about men you are most often called a bitch because you don't let a man become you love interest. Women are subjected to men and are discriminated against if they don't comply with man made society rules. When women chooses to love a women instead of man they crush men's egos about themselves why do they get to be together and have a partner being happy. Lesbians have feelings to they desires to have equal rights and to reach their own goals. However men and one who has strict view on how men and women must coexist together are limiting the benefits of society. No one should be called a bitch for being who they naturally are so I say that society should try to change and know more about the affects of discriminating others. Compared to the benefits of treating every man and women equally.

     What I don't understand is that men can be mean, selfish, malicious, deceiving, cruel, though are not called a bitch only women can be called that. Men can be called assholes but men have a way of conveying this hate message more often better the women. Men do feel at threat at women because women more often try harder then men now a days. Girls in school try harder school because they listen to authority more then boys that would rather mess around and have fun. Boys do have motivates but there not always in the best interest for a prospering society filled with equals.

     Women who don't let men opinion's control them are called bitch the most because they don't let men have there way in a relationships or in the work place. Should women let this word tear down their self esteem about themselves. Women should teach other women that you don't have to let a man call you bitch. You are perfect they way you are don't have to let this hate control the way you live your life. Women must not allow themselves to be call one either bitch is highly insulting and demeaning word. Don't let your man become absolute power because he might abuse you through verbal abuse and sexual abuse.


                                        
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